Human are confused little bunch of organism. We know our problems. We do know its solution. But still wait for someone to come and solve it. If things do not go right, we even know whom to blame. No ownership, no responsibility, just complaining… complaining and complaining.
If the train is late, we assume that because of someone’s mistake we are excruciating, without understanding the fact that there are certain irrepressible situations which may cause this. If the infrastructure of the country is not as we want or we think we deserve, we held responsible the Government without remembering the fact that many a times we have evaded the taxes. When the elected candidate is not doing any good for the constituency, we blame him / her without remembering that it was we who either have elected him or was careless about the election and didn’t have went to cast our vote considering election a dirty game which end up exploiting the countryman. We see poor people and think of doing something and the time that poor goes out of our sight, helping him also goes out of our mind. But when Government makes any plan to create living for the socially and economically depressed class of the society, we blame Government unnecessarily giving importance to them.
The height of the situation I faced today. I was talking to one of my business associate. In a lighter moment we were discussing the laborer problem in the state. It indeed is. Here the responsibility goes to both the laborer as well as the employer. The employer has not come out of the mind of paying less and getting maximum work done by the laborer. Whereas the laborer are not very much keen about working since they are already very much contented with the Facilities State Government is giving to them. Now this even was not the problem of my business associate. The problem was everyone is suffering with the laborer problem but no one is raising his voice. And then he said, “Boss you are a good writer. Why don’t you raise this issue in the newspaper? This will help us solve this problem”. When I asked, “But writing on this issue don’t need you to be a good writer. In a simple language you can raise this issue and its repercussions”. He showed his dissatisfaction on me not ready to write for his problem, as if his this cronic problem is waithing for just my one writing to get solved. Now this is the actual problem. We understand the problem, we know the ways of solving this but still we don’t want to because if anything goes wrong, how can I blame myself for things not going right. Actually initially when any problem comes we resist to that by discussing it into our drawing room. But when it becomes persistent, we just complain… complain and complain. We develop a habit of staying with it and blaming others. Actually we are quite ok with any problem in our life. With the practice of many a thousand years we, the humans, have developed a kind of resistance into our mentality for any such situation which is affecting our equilibrium.
Indeed human are confused little bunch of organism!.
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